New Girlguiding Programme Initial Views

It has been two weeks since the big reveal of the new Girlguiding programme, I’m surprised it hasn’t been longer! There has been so much discussion online about the changes and I’d like to share my views too.

At this stage, I have only seen the new books, read some of the skills builders and browsed through the new books. I’ve also done all the e-learning modules to get my head around it all, but none of this has been put into practice yet!

I’m quite excited to get started on the new programme. I want to try it out and see how the Brownies get along with it.

Unit Activity Cards – Pros & Cons

Last year we were given a set of Unit Activity Cards, the new in unit activity instructions that we need to plan time for to allow the Brownies opportunity to earn their Theme Awards. So far our Brownies have run three of these activities and they’ve been a major success. My favourite thing about these cards is that the Brownies can lead themselves. There is little need to prep, aside from sourcing resources. Just go into the unit, give the card to a couple of girls ready to lead and let them loose.

The downside, in terms of the activities going toward Theme Awards, is that they have a preconceived amount of time allocated, and that is all the time the Brownie will get toward their four hours. We did Soapy Solutions last year and I’m sure we spent a lot longer than 15 minutes on it! It also means there actually isn’t that much by way of girl-led guiding, at some point we will need to do all the Unit Activity Cards, whether the Brownies like the idea of not, to fit in their four hours. As more cards come out we may have more than the four hours per theme.

Skills Builders – Pros & Cons

I like that the badges are set up like the Unit Activity Cards, that the Brownies will be able to lead themselves. For our unit and the number of leaders we have I cannot imagine us running more than two skill builders at a time though. I’m looking forward to giving this a try in January, and it is a good excuse to mix the Brownies up into different small groups. (It can be difficult having disruptive Brownies, their six members can get tired of their antics!)

I unfortunately have a lot more cons for skill builders at the moment, firstly the design seems rather boring in comparison to the interested badges. There is so much colour in everything else! It may have been too many different choices, but I picture young women with blankets filled with Skill Builders unable to remember if they earned their First Aid Stage 3 in Brownies or Guides, separate colour edging per section would be nice.

More importantly, my major concern is the five compulsory activities. When we ran badges in the past we would offer more clauses than required to ensure girls who missed one week could still earn the badge. Or a clause is sent home to be completed. The Skill Builders are not set up for either scenario. Having a catch up night will only work if only a handful of Brownies miss a week, and preferably the same week so they can work together in a small group! Five activities, possibly over five nights in the case of Innovate, with two groups, that is potential for ten activities to be repeated. I cannot see us keeping up with that. I also wish the five activities totalled to the same amount of time in each topic and stage, it would make planning a lot simpler.

Interest Badges – Pros and Cons

I like the design of the new badges, the fact that they’re smaller is a bonus too. It is good to see some progression with the sections. I really hope units stick to the new rules and do not run these as programmes within the unit, that’ll take away from the work of those Brownies who do make the effort to achieve something for themselves. I completed my Look Wider a few years ago, my own choice and it gave me the freedom to try new things and build my self motivation. It is exactly what I wanted to see Girlguiding implement. I wish the topics were wider ranged, so the young members could govern themselves more, it’d fit a lot better with being girl-led.

At Rainbow and Brownie age it can be difficult for some to take part in these without their parents’ support. I envision having a district badge event, where girls can use a local meeting place and resources to work on their badges on their own, with local leaders to help support with reading the syllabus and answering queries and questions. The Brownies could also then work in small groups to earnt he badge together, as mentioned in the badge book.

How will we introduce this?

Our Autumn term is taken up by a project that will fill around half the term, with the other half not being long enough to introduce the programme and run a skills builder we will probably save our first one of those for January.

Instead, we will start by talking through the new themes. I’m thinking of using the dice to get the Brownies shouting out about the topics within each theme. Then running some games around which badges & skill builders fit into which theme, like the one in the Guiding magazine. Plus an evening looking at the interest badges, explaining how they are earned and giving them a deadline for ‘badge night’, should they want to bring work in. Then doing some small activities based on the new badges to get them interested. I’m sure we will fit in some unit activity cards, led by our older girls, and then choosing which skills builder each group would like to work on in January!

How to make slime with Brownies (UK!)

I don’t think you can spend time around a Junior school aged child and not hear about slime at the moment. It seems to be everywhere!

At Brownies we have a tradition that the girls moving up the Guides attend one final evening at the start of term and stay on for Guides straight after, a double session. We also use this as an opportunity to let the leaving girls decide the meeting’s activity, whether it be something new or repeating an old favourite.

Last summer I asked two girls due to leave at Christmas what they wanted to do, and they were excited to make slime! I was nervous as I’d tried a recipe the previous year and it did not work at all, but I wanted to be able to give them a special last session.

I did some research and found an awesome UK recipe (For lack of a better word!) using items easily found in a local supermarket.

How to make slime at Brownies!

Per four Brownies you’ll need:

The links will take you to the exact products I used, you’ll probably find similar in other shops. We gave the choice of green or pink food colouring.

  1. Split the Brownies into groups based on what colour slime they’d like to make, then group the Brownies into threes or fours depending how many bottles of glue & eye solution you have.
  2. Give each group one food container box to create their mix. Start by giving each group the 150ml of PVA glue to pour into the food container.
  3. Supervise each group as they drip a couple drops of food colour into the mix (less is more! Most of our pink slime turned out brown!) and instruct the Brownies to use the plastic spoons / wooden lolly sticks to mix the colouring into the glue.
  4. Give each group a spoon and let them put the headed teaspoon of bicarbonate of soda into the mix and continue mixing.
  5. Finally, a few drops at a time, add the eye lens solution / eye drops. Mix and then add more as needed. As the Brownies mix it’ll become thicker to the point they can pick it up and squish it. Keep going until it looses stickiness and becomes a solid mixture you can stretch and mould.
  6. Split the mixture between the Brownies and give each a food container to take it home in.
  7. Warn the Brownies that the mixture will become watery in a day or so unless regularly moulded, so keep it in the container!

This was such a brilliant evening, much better than I’d imagined. Many of the older Brownies had made slime at home, and were surprised at the amount of bicarbonate of soda they needed to add. But they were very pleased with how it turned out, saying it was the best slime they’d made, and were thanking me for introducing this version to them!

I wish I could show you images but they all have the Brownies very shocked and excited faces in them!

At our Brownies we split it between groups of three or four due to the cost of the eye drops, you might find cheaper so that the girls can have more slime, but I also felt working in groups helped the Brownies learn about team work.

My 1000 adventure list

Yeah, 1000 adventures. I’ve not thought of them all yet but that’s my impossible goal! I’m so inspired by reading other people’s bucket lists, and I get a sense of achievement when I look over the experiences I’ve had in my life so I’m combining the two into this ultimate life list. This has been a piece of work over the last few months, and I’ll continue adding to it as I think of new ideas and achieve new things.

Some of the completed experiences have links to my corresponding blog post, perhaps a new goal will be to write about each one too!

The list below includes future goals and past achievements, the ones I’ve completed are in bold.

2020 Update – So I organised this list a bit better with sub-headings! Unfortunately, I cannot figure out how to continue the numbering underneath each but for reference there is about 378.

Travel

  1. Visit Disney World, Florida
  2. Visit the Louvre
  3. Visit Reykjavik
  4. Tour the Houses of Parliament
  5. Visit the Colosseum
  6. See the northern lights
  7. See the Hollywood sign
  8. Visit Warwick Castle
  9. Visit Pax Lodge
  10. Attend a Brazilian carnival
  11. Visit Sagrada Familia, Barcelona
  12. Visit Universal Studios, Florida
  13. Walk across the Golden Gate Bridge
  14. Visit another Scandinavian city
  15. Spend a night on a Megabus
  16. Visit New York
  17. Complete the Golden Circle, Iceland
  18. Visit the Tower of London
  19. Visit and escape Alkatraz
  20. See the Changing of the Guard, London
  21. Walk the Hollywood walk of fame
  22. Visit the Vatican
  23. Tour the Churchill Cabinet War Rooms
  24. Visit Castle Hedingham
  25. Travel first class
  26. Visit Disneyland, Paris
  27. Go on a cruise
  28. Tour the Globe Theatre
  29. Visit The Atomium, Brussels
  30. Walk along the Great Wall of China
  31. Visit Asterix Park, Paris
  32. Take a boat to see The Needles, Isle of Wight
  33. Visit Dover Castle and the Underground Hospital
  34. Visit the Blue Lagoon, Iceland
  35. See Mount Rushmore
  36. Make a wish at the Trevi Fountain
  37. Visit Porta Ventura theme park in Spain… three times!
  38. Stand at the top of Mount Vesuvius
  39. Visit Australia
  40. Visit the Comics Art Museum, Brussels
  41. Attend the Edinburgh Festival
  42. Visit Pompeii
  43. Visit Niagara Falls
  44. Visit Platform 9 & 3/4
  45. Visit Stonehenge
  46. Go to a Japanese theme park
  47. Go to the top of the Eiffel Tower
  48. Visit the catacombs of Paris
  49. Visit Disney Land, California
  50. Visit the Roman Baths
  51. Visit all capital cities in the UK
  52. Tour the Blackpool Tower
  53. Spend 24 hours at an airport
  54. See Tintagel Castle
  55. Celebrate Christmas in Lapland
  56. See The Little Mermaid statue in Denmark

Adventure

  1. Ride underwater in a submarine
  2. Ride in a dune buddy
  3. Get a tattoo
  4. Ride in a helicopter
  5. Try stand up paddling
  6. Feed a giraffe
  7. See sunset and sunrise in the same night
  8. Go on safari
  9. Ride the vomit comet
  10. Shoot paintballs with a slingshot
  11. Try a VR escape room
  12. Camp at a music festival
  13. Ride a Segway
  14. Take an indoor skydiving lesson
  15. Try archery
  16. Tour a police station
  17. Try caving
  18. Swim with dolphins
  19. Ride a jet ski
  20. Visit ICANDO
  21. Take a bushcraft lesson
  22. Go white water rafting
  23. Go up a volcano
  24. Go zorbing
  25. Go on a ghost hunt
  26. Go camping
  27. Feed an elephant
  28. Ride a chairlift
  29. Try clay pigeon shooting
  30. Tour a secret nuclear bunker
  31. Mosh in a mosh pit
  32. Ride Kingda Ka at Six Flags, New Jersey
  33. Play laser tag
  34. Go snorkeling
  35. Ride The Smiler at Alton Towers
  36. Attend a concert
  37. Go zip lining
  38. Go paintballing
  39. Go rock climbing
  40. Ride The Ultimate at Lightwater Valley
  41. Explore a cave
  42. Play The Void Star Wars VR experience
  43. Do a high ropes course
  44. Escape an escape room
  45. Race a Go Kart
  46. Have a spontaneous water fight
  47. Learn to start a campfire
  48. Hold a Tarantula
  49. Try axe throwing
  50. Ride a Ferris Wheel
  51. Take a Jack the Ripper tour around London
  52. Visit an Ice Bar
  53. Ride in a horse drawn carriage
  54. Find way out of a corn maze at night
  55. Ride in a limo
  56. Try kayaking
  57. Ride the London Eye
  58. Go parasailing
  59. Walk over the o2
  60. Climb Stealth at Thorpe Park
  61. Try disc golf
  62. Go geocaching
  63. Hold a snake
  64. Ride in a hot air balloon
  65. Carry the Olympic torch
  66. Go to space

Creative

  1. Start a blog
  2. Have a caricature drawn of me
  3. Complete a life journal
  4. Tie dye a t-shirt
  5. Make a YouTube video
  6. Make pastry from scratch
  7. Complete a scrapbook
  8. Keep a line-a-day journal for one year
  9. Publish a novel
  10. Design and paint a games room mural in my home
  11. Make soap
  12. Take a life drawing course
  13. Act on stage
  14. Complete my web comic
  15. Learn to crochet
  16. Learn basic origami
  17. Record a podcast
  18. Act in a play
  19. Learn a magic trick
  20. Create art with spraypaint
  21. Publish my web comic online
  22. Try calligraphy
  23. Build snowman twins
  24. Make a hummingbird in origami
  25. Write a children’s novel
  26. Make toys out of felt
  27. Carve a pumpkin
  28. Learn five songs on the guitar
  29. Make a nativity set
  30. Produce and host a nativity play & carol service
  31. Write and produce an Epiphany day play
  32. Learn to play the drums
  33. Complete a 365 Day photo challenge
  34. Bake a creative cake I’m proud of
  35. Make a ‘Guy’ for bonfire night
  36. Paint a Christmas bauble for our tree
  37. Make beaded pattern bracelets on a loom
  38. Write a campfire song
  39. Learn to knit (and complete all the knitting kits I’ve been given!!)
  40. Have an illustration published
  41. Produce a colourful church banner
  42. Make and sell stickers of my own design
  43. Complete a NaNoWriMo
  44. Make a piñata
  45. Buy art at an auction
  46. Complete a Wasjig puzzle
  47. Publish a blog post every week for a year
  48. Learn five Christmas songs on the piano
  49. Make slime
  50. Make some balloon animals
  51. Make an advent calendar
  52. Complete my camp blanket (Progress)
  53. Bake Lebkuchens
  54. Build a website from scratch
  55. Build a bird table
  56. Design a charity Christmas card
  57. Take a photo at each Monopoly location in London
  58. Build a gingerbread house

Shows & Events

  1. Attend Comic Con
  2. See Hamilton
  3. See an immersive theatre experience
  4. Camp at a music festival
  5. Tour a police station
  6. See a caravan banger race
  7. Attend a Formula One race
  8. Attend a secret cinema event
  9. Go on a ghost hunt
  10. See a tennis match at Wimbledon
  11. Have a palm reading
  12. Mosh in a mosh pit
  13. Have a dolphin perform a trick
  14. See a musical at the west end
  15. Attend a murder mystery
  16. Put on a bet at Newmarket
  17. Attend a concert
  18. See Blue Man Group live
  19. See the red arrows
  20. Attend the Edinburgh Festival
  21. See WWE live
  22. Take a Jack the Ripper tour around London
  23. See a Boxing match
  24. Go to a horror maze experience for Halloween
  25. See Derren Brown live
  26. See the New Year fireworks in London
  27. See a show / musical from a private box
  28. See an event at the summer Olympics
  29. Watch experiments at the Science Museum
  30. See a Basketball match
  31. Watch Chelsea at Stamford Bridge
  32. Attend the filming of a TV show
  33. Attend a TED Talk
  34. Sit on a jury
  35. See a Cirque du Soleil show
  36. Attend an equestrian event
  37. See the Trooping of the Colour
  38. Visit a planetarium … (almost! It broke the day we visited!)
  39. Go to a silent disco
  40. Scare someone in Madame Tussards
  41. See a demolition derby
  42. Attend Big Gig

Active

  1. Try paddling boarding
  2. Play human table football
  3. Workout every day for 3 months
  4. Do yoga
  5. Take a fencing class
  6. Hold a plank for 5 minutes
  7. Play Basketball
  8. Run 5k
  9. Take a skiing lesson
  10. Be able to tread water for 30 seconds
  11. Learn ballroom dancing
  12. Compete (and win) at a relay race
  13. Run 10K
  14. Play Hockey
  15. Run a half marathon
  16. Complete a Colour Run
  17. Be able to comfortably touch my toes with straight legs
  18. Be able to do the splits
  19. Walk the London Bridges
  20. Beat James at table tennis
  21. Carry the Olympic torch
  22. Complete a 30 day exercise challenge

Learning

  1. Complete all coding lessons on Khan Academy
  2. Take a Bookkeeping course
  3. Attend a cooking class
  4. Attend a baking class
  5. Complete an online course
  6. Be able to recite all the Commonwealth countries
  7. Take a creative writing course
  8. Take a French Patisserie course
  9. Learn to meditate
  10. Complete a data course
  11. Be fluent in another language
  12. Learn the periodic table
  13. Learn to use chopsticks
  14. Be able to recite all the European countries & their capitals
  15. Attend a wine tasting
  16. Learn a fact about 10 dinosaurs
  17. Complete all statistics lessons on Khan Academy
  18. Improve self through counselling
  19. Learn to start a campfire
  20. View an exhibition at the Science Museum
  21. Be able to recite the 50 American States
  22. Learn to spot constellations
  23. Read a parenting book
  24. Understand Macbeth
  25. Learn sign language
  26. Read a self improvement book
  27. Complete a leadership & Management course
  28. Know how to solve a Rubik’s cube
  29. Be able to mix three cocktails
  30. Learn to juggle
  31. View an exhibition at the British Museum
  32. Understand chess strategies
  33. Figure out crosswords
  34. Complete a first aid course
  35. Be able to complete a full car check
  36. Attend a self improvement class
  37. Complete a cryptic crossword
  38. Learn Morse Code

Food & Drink

  1. Eat pizza in Naples
  2. Eat a croissant in Paris
  3. Drink beer at Oktoberfest
  4. Eat chocolate at Cadbury World, Birmingham
  5. Eat a cannoli in Italy
  6. Eat a Cornish Pasty in Cornwall
  7. Try a corn dog in America
  8. Eat a Macaron in Paris
  9. Bake a gingerbread house
  10. Eat McDonalds three times in 24 hours!
  11. Gut a fish
  12. Help cook Christmas dinner
  13. Make pastry from scratch
  14. Eat churros in America
  15. Eat at a dark restaurant
  16. Eat a Grande Big Mac
  17. Drink Limoncello in Sorrento
  18. Eat chocolate and waffles in Brussels
  19. Collect a glass from every Hard Rock Cafe (Progress)
  20. Try Frogs Legs

Career & Volunteering

  1. Get a promotion
  2. Earn my Girlguiding leadership qualification
  3. Complete the Girlguiding ‘Going Away’ qualification
  4. Organise a tombola fundraiser
  5. Be a Girlguiding Peer Educator
  6. Collect and donate school equipment to Malawi
  7. Be a Post Pals Fortnightly Writer for a year
  8. Lead a campfire
  9. Organise an event for over 100 people
  10. Complete the Commonwealth Award
  11. Complete the Chief Guide’s Challenge
  12. Organise a Girlguiding district event
  13. Donate blood
  14. Count the vote in an election
  15. Co-ordinate and produce a 40 page brochure
  16. Sponsor a child for 5 years
  17. Be interviewed for a magazine article
  18. Become a Girlguiding trainer
  19. Organise an international Brownie pen pal exchange
  20. Volunteer at a national Girlguiding event
  21. Volunteer at a Peer Educator training weekend
  22. Volunteer at Wellies & Wristbands

Fun and Random

  1. Get a tattoo
  2. See sunset and sunrise in the same night
  3. Win a big game of Monopoly
  4. Witness a wedding proposal
  5. Read one novel every month for a year
  6. Have a capsule wardrobe
  7. Buy a house
  8. Have Afternoon Tea
  9. Contact someone with the same name
  10. Watch all Studio Ghibli films (Progress)
  11. Bury a time capsule
  12. Get face painted as an adult
  13. Read all of ‘A Song of Ice & Fire’
  14. Wear fake eyelashes
  15. Give a haircut
  16. Catch all 150 Pokemon in one game
  17. Send flowers
  18. Try a reflexology treatment…reluctantly!
  19. Meet a sloth
  20. Try hypnosis
  21. Get a spray tan
  22. Complete a Mario game
  23. Create family tree
  24. Watch every classic Disney film (Progress)
  25. Have professional family portrait taken
  26. Read all the Sherlock Holmes stories (Progress)
  27. Be visited by the 13 Yule Lads of Christmas
  28. Get a manicure
  29. Dye hair blonde
  30. Dye hair ginger
  31. Dye hair pink
  32. Watch a full season of LOST in 24 hours
  33. Own a pet axolotl
  34. Carry the Olympic torch

Family & With Children

  1. Say ‘Yes’
  2. Have a child
  3. Breastfeed my child

Travel (with children)

  1. Holiday on the Isle of Wight
  2. Visit Cornwall
  3. Visit the Louvre in Paris
  4. Build a sandcastle in Spain

Adventure (with children)

  1. Visit Blackgang Chine
  2. Visit Centre Parcs
  3. Visit Alton Towers
  4. Visit Legoland
  5. Visit Thorpe Park
  6. Go camping
  7. Visit Pepper Pig World

Creative (with children)

  1. Dress up in matching cosplay with my kids
  2. Help paint a canvas for their bedroom
  3. Create personal Christmas Eve boxes for my kids

Shows & Events (with children)

  1. Attend Comic Con
  2. See a Pantomime

Active (with children)

Learning (with children)

Food & Drink (with children)

Fun & Random (with children)

12. See the bigger picture

Part 12 of my series on developing great leadership skills based on Girlguiding’s article here:

12 steps to becoming a great leader

“So, when you need inspiration, think of fellow members out there. We’re all different, but through challenge, friendship, fun and adventure, we can achieve great things.”

It can be difficult sometimes to remember we’re all a part of this giant movement, and to encourage the Brownies to look wider than even our own unit.

A few years ago we took part in an exciting project at World Centre Sangaam in India. The Centre was looking to raise money by selling friendship bracelets made by girlguiding members around the world so we spent an evening making bracelets, having spent a couple weeks learning about India, and in return we received a postcard from the centre thanking us for the donation.

I wish there were more projects like this we could get involved in.

We have run international pen pals and postcard exchanges a couple times over the years and this gets the Brownies thinking about those further afield. Plus we had a lovely district day learning all about Guiding in a different region, for us we looked at Asia and learned to wear Saris and henna painting.

And me? I’m yet to have an international adventure with Guiding. I think the two biggest factors against doing it is a) the cost (if there is fundraising to do I’d rather do it for the unit or the church), b) the time away from James – it doesn’t seem fair for me to use my annual leave to go on holiday without him. So I cannot see myself taking on an overseas trip for Girlguiding any time soon. But James and I have our own adventures abroad and I wouldn’t have it any other way 🙂

I do love seeing what goes on in Guiding around the world though, and Facebook is great for seeing this. I’m a member of a few international groups and like a few international pages, such as Free Being Me and Girlguiding South Africa, which gives me a glimpse into the life of memebrs and volunteers around the world.

11. Find the fun

Part 11 of my series on developing great leadership skills based on Girlguiding’s article here:

12 steps to becoming a great leader

“In tough times, a sense of humour gets us through, and it’s extremely useful for teaching those you lead new skills and tackling challenging issues.”

For this I want to reminisce over the times where I could relax being the authoritative figure and could just have a laugh with the Brownies.

Recently we had an evening making animal masks for the Friends to Animals badge. Rather than wandering the room and checking everyone was okay I found myself at a table where the newer Brownies had settled and started making a mask myself. This night was a brilliant way to get to know our new recruits. One especially is very quiet, but we spent the whole night working together and chatting about geckos like the one in Tangled. We all made up names for our alter egos while wearing our masks.

Another great time was on a Christmas sleepover. When we go to activity sites there isn’t usually time for us leaders to have a go at activities but one this day I had a go at a few things, such as caving. The Brownies had begged me to join them as some were scared and there I found myself crawling through a pitch black tunnel, but we all came out the other side sharing stories and some defeating their fears.

On the same sleepover, another lovely moment I won’t forget is the group of us, 6 Brownies and 2 leaders, having an impromptu singing of ‘Rocking Around the Christmas Tree’, it was just a lovely moment.

The look on the Brownies faces when they saw my fellow leader and I racing to slot all the giant four in a row coins back onto the board was a treat! We just started putting the game away ready for next use and turned it into a race and the Brownies couldn’t believe what they were seeing.

I love any time that the Brownies suggest I have a go, one of the best times I took them up on it was at the ‘Spark’ nationwide event at the roller disco. Not only did I enjoy getting stuck in and having a go on roller skates for the first time in ten years I was also able to help a small Brownie skate for the first time too.

Finding the fun as leaders is essential, I have to remind myself sometimes I am a member of the unit too!

10. Take Some Me-Time

Part 10 of my series on developing great leadership skills based on Girlguiding’s article here:

12 steps to becoming a great leader

“When you’re leading a group, it can be all too easy to burn out – so it’s important to take care of yourself. Practise saying no, and being polite but firm.”

So this is my guilty post.

I’m glad this is on the list though, as it justifies the recent ‘No’ I handed out.

A couple months ago I was asked to consider becoming a Peer Educator Trainer, a local session was going to be run later this year and they were looked for people aged 19-30 to train to become trainers. I loved the idea of passing on my Peer Educator knowledge and a weekend away with similar aged guiding members would be fun so I said I was interested.

Then I received the email with the details of what would be expected and I was not prepared for the amount of time this commitment would take. One weekend to train in London, completing two qualifications, and then being committed to four weekends a year anywhere nationwide, for the next three years.

At first I was excited by the prospect of gaining a preparing to teach qualification. I was considering it, although it was A LOT more than I expected. I was thinking like a day or two to train and then one weekend away later in the year, and maybe one next year! I suppose I was rather naïve, and I do completely understand why Girlguiding would want that big commitment from the people it is putting their money into training.

So I discussed it with James, and talking it through really put it in perspective. One weekend away on top of the two weekends already with the Brownies, plus the occasional volunteering at a big event and many day trips through the year was already difficult for him to hear. And I hate seeing him like that. So another four was unthinkable. And he was right. One weekend every three months, plus my Brownie commitments, plus not knowing how far I would need to travel before being at work at 9am on the Monday after.

This was a time I had to put James, and my own wellbeing, first. I said No.

I have complete respect for any Girlguiding member that takes on this commitment, I had no idea how much goes into becoming a Girlguiding trainer! From what I had previously read online I thought it would be more laid back, it was a role I had thought I would progress into but it is indeed a huge commitment and that would be one thing too many for me right now.

So I’m going to focus on my Brownies, take a few steps towards helping the local Senior Section and make sure I include some me time during each week.

9. Jump right in

Part 9 of my series on developing great leadership skills based on Girlguiding’s article here:

12 steps to becoming a great leader

“To keep young members on their toes, try to give them at least one brand new experience to enjoy each term. It can be as small or as big as you like – whether it’s a fun sports event, a food–tasting session or an international trip – all activities are enriching in their own way.”

This is a thought provoking topic! Are we giving our girls new experiences?

It is a difficult one to judge, what we think may be a new experience for the girls could turn out to be a little run of the mill. When we invited in a yoga teacher for a session, one parent commented how much her daughters enjoy yoga. Plus kids have so many opportunities to try out archery, climbing and pedal karts that a day at an activity centre may nor be as exciting as I would’ve found it.

This won’t be for every girl, but here are some of the experiences we have offered which have been quite unique:

Watching the Paralympic athletics. I cannot say another group will ever have this opportunity with us! In 2012 we took a group of Brownies to watch the events in the stadium, while some may have seen other events that year I think this is the only activity we will never be able to repeat! (Although taking the Brownies to another sporting event could be a good idea.)

Spy night. There was a lot of buzz following this themed evening in our unit. The Brownies and leaders dressed up, everyone had code names (I was Alpha Snake) and the Brownies took on four tasks, including a laser room, to claim the four clues to the whereabouts of their Easter eggs. I think these are the rare activities the Brownies cannot experience elsewhere.

Kidzania. This summer we’re hoping to take the Brownies to this interactive indoor city for kids. I know for some they will have visited before but as Brownies we haven’t, and I know some parents want their girls to go but cannot personally take them. I hope this will be an exciting new activity.

Visiting the Police Station. I think this has been the best unit meeting trip we’ve had. The police officers were so accommodating. The Brownies were very excited to see the  vehicles, handcuffs, cells, and all aspects behind the scenes.

8. Keep up to date

Part 8 of my series on developing great leadership skills based on Girlguiding’s article here:

12 steps to becoming a great leader

“Having the latest information is key to leading well, and keeping your email address up to date on Go! will ensure you receive all Girlguiding communications. These, along with our website, will give you the need–to–know on everything from insurance to events.”

I am not one for social media, but for Brownies our leadership team set up a closed group for the parents to keep more informed. Due to this I technically have a Facebook profile, but I keep it clear of friends as I do not want those distractions. What I do use it for is keeping up to date with all things Girlguiding and some other interests too.

I can spend ages scrolling through my Facebook feed, finding out about events tacking place locally for Brownies, discussions from fellow leaders and taking inspiration from what other units have done. We recently got the paints out and each Brownie painted a mini masterpiece following an idea from Facebook – it was messy fun! It all stemmed from one Brownie saying the stain glass paint set we bought her for Christmas went in the bin because her Mum doesn’t let her get paints out. Well, what is Brownies here for!

It also gives us great ideas for trips. We are very close to being within a neighbouring county, and therefore while we don’t receive direct updates about what they are up to we can find out about trips and events they’re offering through Facebook. We’ve joined a few events at venues much closer than the ones offered in our County, and the Brownies gets some great new experiences.

Keeping the parents informed works so much better with Facebook too. On the morning of each meeting I add a status as to what the Brownies are doing that evening. Then in the days following we add a few photos to show what they did. We also use it to remind of consent forms, due payments and changes to meeting times and venues. Plus we can see who has seen the message!

7. Be inspired… and inspiring

Part 7 of my series on developing great leadership skills based on Girlguiding’s article here:

12 steps to becoming a great leader

“In guiding, we promise to ‘be true to myself’, which means taking steps to be happy in your own skin. Self–reflection isn’t always easy, but it can be rewarding – and being ourselves can inspire others.”

Who the heck am I? And what inspires me?

I suppose I am inspired to make our Brownie unit the best it can possibly be. But I cannot help feeling I am holding some things back, as it isn’t who I am and therefore is difficult / I do not agree with sharing it with the Brownies.

So to start, the good things about who I am and how they impact the group:

I like to challenge myself, and therefore I don’t always choose the easiest option when it comes to planning activities. It is rare the unit uses Baker Ross pre-planned crafts. In the past we have done an owl stitched soft toy on Brownie Holiday – the sewing aspect was quite a challenge. We have also done sequin pinned Easter eggs, not quite so challenging. I think it has been since then, about three years ago, I’ve avoided these sorts of crafts.

Another challenge I give myself when it comes to planning in ensuring we either leave the unit place, or welcome a visitor, at least once per term. In the past year we have been on chip walk (of course), the park, had a visit from a local clay company, a yoga session and visit to Pets at Home. I’m also planning a bouncy castle for the end of term.

I do enjoy a craft, I keep scrapbooks, in the past I’ve made my own cards and bracelets. Oh, and I love to draw! I try to use these things sparingly in the unit though. I know the stigma of the ‘only does crafts every week’ Brownie units. When we do a craft I try to keep it something with some skill. On Brownie Holiday we made awesome dreamcatchers – I will write about those at some point – and for some that was their favourite activity over the on site stuff.

So on the self-reflective side – things I could do better at to help the unit…

Go outside more. I really wish I had the forethought to ensure more of our meetings could take place out on the green during the summer months. We head outside for gardening twice a year, plus sometimes games outside and chip walk. There has been the odd meeting where we decide to spend the entire meeting, circle included, outside. But this isn’t often enough. I hoped Brownie Holiday would tackle this, intending the be outside as much as possible, but some things were just so difficult.

Lead better planning pow-wows. Sometimes I look at the term ahead, a plan decided on by the Brownies, and I wish we could do so much more. But these are the ideas the Brownies have thought of and chosen. I do offer my ideas, but the number wanting to do science experiments and the more educational interest badges are few. There is so much Brownies could do that I never get a chance to lead!

Pamper / girly nights. This is difficult because I just don’t agree with it. I think at Brownies the girls should be playing games, learning about the world and team building. We always do fun activities too. But stopping everything for a pamper evening just seems a waste of time to me. I completely agree with teaching the Brownies how to care for their nails and hair, I recall these things being in my Brownie handbook, but facemasks, nail varnish etc, for a group of nine year olds just seems wrong to me. And I don’t want to encourage an interest in it. Especially when we can run Free Being Me sessions instead.

 

6. Support each other

Part 6 of my series on developing great leadership skills based on Girlguiding’s article here:

12 steps to becoming a great leader

“Sometimes, guiding means leading from behind the scenes, providing support and reassurance. On those occasions, try to listen carefully and respectfully, give constructive feedback, facilitate rather than direct, and provide pep talks when needed. Enabling others – both fellow volunteers and young group members – to take on responsibility is an important part of being a great leader.”

In our unit we have two Adult Leaders and four Young Leaders. Technically one becomes an Adult Leader in Training this month, and another later this year. Three of these four have been with us now for four years, and one has been with us nearly two. Supporting these young people through their Young Leadership has been a difficult task for me but I try my best to offer them every opportunity to complete it.

Each term we have one session where the Brownies give us their list of activities they’d like to do this term. Following that the whole leadership team sits down and discusses how we turn that into a termly plan, and at this point I offer out evenings for the Young Leaders to take over. As Young Leaders they need to complete one activity on the promise, and another couple on the Brownie programme. I make sure they pick activities that are from a different aspect to what they have already done, but aside from that they choose whatever they wish to do.

As they do one activity a term it takes them about two years to complete everything in their qualification. I try to set aside time during term to sit with each Young Leader and check how things are going, and try to help them plan what they should do next towards their qualification.

This year our two eldest Young Leaders completed their awards and I am so happy for them. They worked so hard for it both in the unit and at home.

Again, this is an aspect of leading I find difficult, it doesn’t come naturally to me to mentor these girls through this. I’m unsure if I come across as pushy or demanding, or expecting too much from them. But they have also proved very capable of leading successful activities.

You may look at our numbers and think having four Young Leaders is a lot. In all honesty when the fourth came to us and asked if she could join I felt it difficult to say ‘no’ to a young person wishing to volunteer. But actually having four Young Leaders works in both our favour and the young leaders. It allows them time in the unit to sit out and write up some aspects of the award. They take it in turns to use a meeting to plan their own upcoming meeting. It is rare that all four are able to join us for trips and holiday, but we know it is likely we will have one or two supporting us.

I’ve since had two more Guides wishing to join as Brownie Helpers and it is such a shame we cannot take them. They are directed to the right people to make more enquiries but I think for many joining the group that meets before their own is much easier on them and their parents.

I think moving forward with this I will try to make the arrival time at Brownies, except when speaking with parents, as a time to check in with the Young Leaders.